Rituals help us mark the complexities of life transitions.

When I turned 60, my fellow seminarians and I created a ritual titled “Becoming an Elder.” As we held up objects representing our grief (Jimmy Choos; a pair of soccer cleats; a nightclub photo), and reflected on what we were gaining by embracing the much-maligned archetype of the crone, I could feel our collective breath exhale as we eased ourselves into this new, uncharted territory.

When my partner retired after 26 years as a public school teacher, we designed a ritual to help her cross the threshold with intention and care.

Rituals need not be elaborate to be impactful; a simple, well-designed ritual can foster personal growth, especially during times of change.

Are you curious about creating a ritual to mark a significant life event? I would love to help you celebrate an important milestone, including:

• Special birthdays

• Retirement

• Coming out

• Divorce

• Moving from a beloved home

Let's explore together.